Sunday, June 30, 2013

June 2013 Aphorisms

Sunday, June 30, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 30, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

This aphorist's goal in life is to convince us about our multidiscursive nature of being human because of how we are layered and nuanced through and through in how we have taken on language. In religion one can lose perspective through misunderstanding the processes of language even when the contexts provides us with the codes on how we are to interpret. A Stop sign on the corner is different from the Stop sign that decorates a bedroom as a sort of Warholian piece of "pop art." The word Stop on the sign on the corner results in different body language acts than does the word Stop on the sign in a piece of "pop art." We understand the processes of language from the context of our cultures even as we always need to be in the learning process of how we use language and how we are "used" by it in how we take it on in so many passive ways in our culture. In our faith experience we need to understand biblical language more appropriately in the aesthetic category rather than as scientific method or eye-witness journalistic accounts. Failing to do so results in using the wrong discursive practice to interpret a text.Saturday, June 29, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 29, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Multidiscursivity layers and intermingles and enlightens and confuses us in how we interpret or read our world. So a fundamentalist might acknowledge the "truth" of radioactive dating even while asserting that the world is just 6000 years old. After all, if God created an older man Adam, God also created "very old rocks." So the apparent conflict between science and literal myth is "resolved." Such is only one example of the interpretive knots that people tie themselves into as they fail to interpret the world and the interior self with the fitting discursive practice to process incoming information. To live according to all of the modern effects of knowing the laws of science while assuming the world is 6000 years old does manifest itself in a schizoidal disconnect from reality. And we see that in our public life today.Friday, June 28, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 28, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Some people have a difficult time in believing because they do not recognize or accept that they are multidiscursive beings. So they are trying to receive square data through a round hole on their language interpretive screens. When things don't fit, they can't believe because they finally admit that the square stuff will not enter their round hole. This happens when people try to force matters that properly belong to aesthetics through the holes that are dominate in philosophical and scientific method thinking. Do we have to quit being moved by poetry or music just because we can't explain its effect upon us philosophically or scientifically? Or do we admit that we need all of the multidiscursive processing slots to give our experience the fullness of poignant truths. We may stop believing when we privilege one certain discursive mode as being the end all mode of defining truth. Let's adopt a new version of Descartes, "We multidiscourse, therefore we are."Thursday, June 27, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 27, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

In the long effort to institutionalize the message of Jesus, the followers of Jesus have had to do much editing. First, there was the decision made about what to include and thus save in the collective memory. But the sayings of Jesus were saved in different ways to different groups of people. One version is "Blessed are the poor," and another is "Blessed are the poor in spirit." Why the difference? For a message to survive it must always be applied within a contemporary community who still find the message relevant and useful. We cannot time travel to the original contexts in the life of Jesus of Nazareth; we can study lots of historical background information. Today, there seems to be people who would rather say "my interpretation of Jesus is better than yours" rather than find insights to know God as worshipful and find inspiration to love all of our neighbors.Wednesday, June 26, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 26, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Faith and hope are very contextual. For some it may be hopeful to merely rise in the morning do some very basic life tasks and be faithful in basic maintenance. But in other contexts where other levels of ability factor in hope raises the bar upon what we want to occur and hope can set what may be for us higher standards and faith for us then means being successful in meeting the standards of hope. Sometimes we hope for too much or hope does not seem to be grounded enough in realistic assessment of our situation and when our expression of faith does not reach hope's standard we may be tempted to feel "faithless" or not up to the task. Sometimes we have to accept the hope of being like a Cubs fan, living with the hope of "wait" till next year even while believing and working in the present towards hope's vision of excellence.Tuesday, June 25, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 25, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Dreams can allow one to return backward in historical reconstruction of an event carrying with one the sense of foreknowledge that all will be not only well but better, even marvelous, glorious. In a dream one can return to a former scenario with hindsight redemption and it can make the experience of former pain, meaningful in a different way. When one reads the Passion narratives, particularly in John's Gospel, one finds that the authors have returned to the Passion event from the dream of resurrection redemption and the Passion event is appropriated in a different way than it would have been originally experienced. The atmospherics of the internal kingdom allows this confusion of time when one returns to the past memory and reconstructs it with a "will have become" knowledge.Monday, June 24, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 24, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Have the experiences of Jesus and St. Paul been recorded and institutionalized to be made the normative standard so that everyone else is to live second hand off the accounts of Jesus and Paul? Is the purpose of our faith to say Jesus and Paul already had all experiences of the godly, so why bother to embrace one's own with any originality? Or do the written records of Jesus and Paul exist so that we might embrace the originality of our own experience, not so new religions might be formed but to re-instantiate the Spirit again and again?Sunday, June 23, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 23, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

"Please understand me" can be an unrealistic impossible request because of differences no two people harmonically converge in sharing precise "same meaning." In the euphorics of love we can share mutual impressionism in meanings and in mob or herd thinking we can unite behind what we believe to be a common idea. Being unique in one's understanding preserves our distinction but demanding that someone else be exactly where one is in understanding is a kind of insecure dictatorship. One way of understanding God's Spirit is to live in the impressionism of love in mutual respect holding to things in common while granting that everyone is is an "exception" to any cookie cutter singular pattern of how one should be loving.Saturday, June 22, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 22, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Live radio has a seven second delay device to allow the censoring of unwanted material from being heard. Language stands as a delay filter between us and the reality of what is outside and inside. Since we only learn the outside and inside from learning language we begin to assume the language filter and reality are one and the same and are unaware of the delay. In that delay and on the screen of Word, our world is created, being created and will be created and though Word is very communal we still have the freedom to articulate particular Word manifestation in our speech acts and body language. We need to look at what we have on automatic through repetition to interdict habits that we want to change even as we rely on repetitive habits to be memorized redundancies so that we can take on creating what is truly new for the day beyond our habits.Friday, June 21, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 21, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

We look to the future, both immediate and long term to verify or falsify the current details of how we would articulate hope.  And if hope's detail become falsified when future becomes the present our organ of hope can still churn out new details but do we put more realistic parameters on what we hope for if past hope details have been falsified?  Do we make Hope into  a person who can cause us to be often in the situation of an unrequited lover?  Do we give up hope on the grand scale?  Do we stop loving hope?  And what kind of word gymnastics is this having dueling virtues, love and hope?  Can the expression of one virtue be in competition with the expression of another virtue?  Loving to hope and hoping to love are rather theoretical unless they are attached to details in our lives where we add the third virtue of faith to be unafraid to let theory be incarnate in the details of our lives where desire is really projected and the rubber really hits the road.Thursday, June 20, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 20, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

The mutual relationship of an uncountable number of beings, events, and things all sharing a degree of freedom is responsible for the experience what we call the "random." Randomness might get qualified as serendipitous fortune or blessing or as misfortune depending upon whose well-being is impacted by what is called "random." Where there is human behavior and human willfulness one can make judgments about "culpability," but even culpability is set up by a host of mysterious preconditions. If Godly salvation is the cosmic health insurance of living, we can be thankful that Grace comes to us even though we have many preexisting conditions. How's that for an affordable care act?Wednesday, June 19, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 19, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

As multi-discursive people we need to have all pathways to insights open and not limit how we are going to be greeted and welcomed to our next step in excellence by a particular lure in our path.  Wisdom as possible insights lurks everywhere; we can we awestruck by the form of a gnarled live oak tree, a swooping raptor, a piece of music, a phrase in a novel, the right spot on the palate, a quip of a friend, an inadvertent over-hearing of someone else's conversation or the smile of a child.  The sublime is an always already possibility if we've learned to turn all of our radar on. Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Aphorism of the Day, June 18, 2013


Aphorism of the Day

With all of the internet match-making sites, there is an effort to aid and assist the event of serendipity of love. The theory is that mutual love is more likely to happen if there are more "viewing" chances. One hopes that if God is love then there is possible in this life enough mutual people-whispering to happen so that everyone was befriended to one's heart content. How can we read our environment today as whispering us in befriending ways? Surely if everyone in this world had a significant other, there would be world peace? Timing is everything and we pray for propitious timing for all today.

Monday, June 17, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

The Gospels portray Jesus as the ultimate People Whisperer to those who needed their lives brought into peaceful order. At the same time he is presented as one who did not whisper his religious opponents and the Roman authorities who were threatened by something other than his therapeutic presence to those who wanted and needed to be whispered to health. The realm or kingdom of Christ is seen as a parallel existence with other more obvious realms. The irony continues today; people can still be whispered by a risen Christ even when the outer realm and kingdoms indicate no peace at all.

Aphorism of the Day, June 16, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

In what way is history and the Bible writings for entertainment? Only exciting events and people are deemed worthy of memory in literature that becomes public even though 99 per cent or more of life is merely events of the quotidian (so ordinary and everyday) that we don't deem them worthy to remember. History and the Bible are stories about our identities; they make us see ourselves differently and we need to continually ask how they make us see ourselves. Literature and history involve reducing massive amounts of information to "time-lapsed" stories so that we can get the impression in a short viewing of "what happened." And we do not get to know much of what happened about those in history on whom the camera of history writers were not focused. In patriarchal and paternalistic cultures women, children and working class (slaves) did not get to appear much in the history books. So massive amounts of quotidian experiences determining outcomes never got recorded. If Christianity has anything to do with liberation, it would mean that the once marginalized can now be given an equal place in how our stories are to be told in the future.

Saturday, June 15, 2013


Aphorism of the Day, June 15, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Structuralism was based upon Saussurean lingistics which posited a signifer and a signifed. Post-structuralism came about because of the acknowledgment of not being able get to an unmediated signified; one simply ends up with an endless reference to synonym signifers. So words end up pointing only to other words and not to the "real thing," since "real thing" are also wordsignifers. One can appreciate the post-modern dilemma with words like God and love and hope and justice; they still have meaning, many meanings and different meanings for people who use these words in their experiences. One can appreciate the effort of science to simplify referential language for community agreement but at the same time one should not abandon the worded and aesthetic profundity of using words with feeling tones and moods because people in situ often use words like God, love, justice and hope as the only truly meaningful way to characterize their experiences. Post-modernism is an invitation to mysticism because we are people who are created in how we are significant by Word.


Friday, June 14, 2013




Aphorism of the Day, June 14, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

One can find "fundamentalism" is perhaps a way in which one holds what one has come to regard as true. The insights "appear" to be so unique and so special to a person or to a group that it becomes exclusive. One takes the blessing of an insight and makes oneself or one's group so chosen, that others immediately become the impoverished "unchosen" who don't have the exclusive blessing of such insights. But what is the benefit of such an insight that separates one from humanity in such a judgmental way. Seems like it could be just as well characterized as a Folie à deux..trois,quartre, cinq.........

Thursday, June 13, 2013



Aphorism of the Day, June 13, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Balancing excesses and austerity require wisdom in life. Excesses arise from the build up of desire that projects upon objects and people in the one's environment. They come easily because excess have the same energy of a pathology: It's easy to do things over which one does not seem to have much control as in "I have the gift of eating endless chocolate." The excess of worship comes from the deep sense of appreciation where one has come to take events of grace so personal that something of excessive devotion is drawn from within and after pinching oneself in disbelief regarding serendipitous grace, one offers prayers and acts of gratitude to Plenitude for coming into the arrangement of harmonic ambiance so as to permit such a state of well-being.
Aphorism of the Day, June 12, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Roland Barthes in his book "S/Z" introduced the notion of a writerly reader.  From this notion, I understood how little an author controls one's meanings when one's writes.  The reader is the writer of what is being read while it is being read because the reader is bringing the reader's meanings to the words on the page.  One could extend this notion to what would be called "speakerly listening."  Do we ever hear what someone is really saying or only how we filter it through our own meaning filters?  If we cannot own up to our own meaning filters in acknowledging that we are speakerly listeners, how do we do attentive listening?  Therapeutic listening involves a more intentional exercise, an impossible one, to withhold or practice deferring judgments upon what one's hear in order to let the speaker determine his or her own meanings before one rushes to interact with one's own judgments.  And if one's judgments are not asked for, then they need not be given.  This is a way of honoring a person with an attentive listening for the purposes of allowing a person to release pain through simply speaking.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013



Aphorism of the Day, June 11, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Take note today of the focus of intentional acts that are required to complete issues of life maintenance and work today and the ambient factors that do not grab your immediate attention. Constant sirens, chirping birds, drone of freeway traffic, running water, colors, access to windows and light, etc. The great environment is expressed as living and having our being in God.We can only imagine God as the greatest expansion on a concentric horizon. The smaller concentric environments that surround us seem to make the inaccessible horizon negligible in our knowledge of immediate cause and effect. We experience environment as both spacial and inter-spatial. As spiritual directors of our own lives we need to conduct many kinds of environmental relationships in our daily lives. How do we neutralize an offending factor in our environment? How do we integrate incredible diversity into an experience of beauty? How do we appropriate cacophony as a great hummmmm.....OMMMMMM of meditative support?



Monday, June 10, 2013




Aphorism of the Day, June 10, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Go forth and stylize your good news today. Use the typical rhetorical devices of ethos, pathos and logos. Ethos is the appeal to one's character; how we back up our words with our living. Pathos, is appealing to our knowledge of the emotions and sentiments of others; one size does not fit all and so sensitivity to others is needed. Logos is making the reasonable case for our good news. Wisdom is using our accumulated life experience (ethos) and presenting ourselves with emotional intelligence of ourselves and others (pathos) and grounded in accessible common sense (logos) appeals. You can make the case that you are loved by God today and be that agent of love today.


Aphorism of the Day, June 9, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

If there is a God, God and the very notion of God is left to those who are not God to defend God's reality. One might question the wisdom of the Greatest to entrust the knowledge of divine existence to those who potentially could do it so poorly as to misrepresent the Greatest and cause people to disbelieve. This situation of great Creative Freedom being vulnerable to lesser but true freedom of human beings is our great epic in life. If we limit God to but phrases from the cultural details of the Bible, we can misrepresent the Greatness of a God of Creative Freedom who lures us to honor our lesser freedom through the practice of justice and care.

Saturday, June 8, 2013



Aphorism of the Day, June 8, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

The Psalmist wrote that the Lord God gives justice to those who are oppressed, and food to those who hunger. Skeptics ask how does or is God doing this since oppression and hunger have always existed. If the Lord God is giving justice and food then one must ask serious questions about what is falsifying the reality of those words. Or is it that God is the utopian impossibility of human quest as the structural personal necessity to set the direction of preservation of life because if the direction is toward injustice and hunger with no counter gravity towards goodness, indeed we are doomed.


Friday, June 7, 2013



Aphorism of the Day, June 7, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Let us strive to be converted to generosity, not because there are people and causes who let their needs be known to us all of the time; rather let us be converted to generosity for the personal benefit of our own health and heart. Generous people are never poor because they have eyes to see their collective wealthy everywhere and enjoy their wealth without the hassle or anxiety of maintenance. No one can steal the sunrise or sunset from one who takes time to enjoy them as a personal possession. A generous person can help others to discover the wealth that comes from seeing how much is freely bestowed upon us by mere existence itself.

Thursday, June 6, 2013



Aphorism of the Day, June 6, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

The word "style" often has come to mean shallow individualism in manner of expression. It can also mean that one simply has the money to buy the latest models of clothes or any product. In another sense style does not need to mean a showy, shallow individualism for getting crass attention; rather it can be the way in which a person has mobilized the desire of one's life to energize the grace or charisma of one's personality to make truths one's own in very personal and original ways. Style in this sense is like improvisation in jazz music; learning all of the music rules so that one can break them in a profound lyricism. Style can mean to learn lyricism in living as one moves from imitation to invention in one's life of faith. No one can "do" faith exactly like you if you are doing your faith with lyrical "style."



Wednesday, June 5, 2013




Aphorism of the Day, June 5, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Graduation ceremonies are called Commencements. It is a threshold event between one's life in school and the next phase of life. The threshold event is liminal; betwixt and between. The so-call "real world" of finding a job contrasted with the student world means that a significant re-socialization begins to take place in one's life and re-socialization re-brands us in how we have to begin to know ourselves in the future. Baptism is the sacrament of life and continual re-adjustment to know ourselves differently as an individual based upon the community within which we live and the one that provides for the highest vision of who we are and can become. Whether a student or newly hired engineer in one's first post graduate job, the baptismal issue is how to continue to know oneself as loved and gifted within a community and to let the community make its impact upon oneself even as one contributes to the growth in excellence of the community. A blessed commencement to all new graduates!



Tuesday, June 4, 2013




Aphorism of the Day, June 4, 2013
Aphorism of the Day

Graduation events in our education systems are perhaps crucial rites of passage in the lives of students and are rightly celebrated. It is good to celebrate achievements in knowledge even though learning is never completely attained and what one has learned has to be returned to and integrated for the rest of one's life. The sacraments are not rules and requirements of the the church; they are rite of passage wisdom events which if properly understood and taught are rituals for the dynamic remembering and renewal of life orientation realities. Too bad the church often has taught them as control of the "herd" and people have thus seen them as requirements for church membership rather than dynamic personal and social faith process in continual life orientation.




Monday, June 3, 2013




Aphorism of the Day, June 3, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Monday Recipe?  A dash of blues.  A kick of "get real."  A teaspoon of affirmation.  A tablespoon of classical music.  A sprinkle of lucky kindness.  A cup of drudgery.  A ton of patience.  A pinch of forgiveness.  Drops of smiles.  A quart of friendship. Served with copious amounts of God's grace.


Aphorism of the Day, June 2, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

What is the difference between having meaning or being meaningful and being true? Are unicorns true in terms of their empirical existence? Are unicorns meaningful for preschool girls? Truth cannot be limited to empirical verification unless one wants to deny poignant meanings of many unseen realities. Certainly if one's unseen realities do not connect one with what can be seen in ways other than fantasy then one's grip on reality and balance in life is in question. Truth may be a multi-faceted diamond with many showings corresponding to the many ways in which we express our humanity, all of which come to language in word and body language. Wisdom is worded pragmatism in doing justice to multi-discursive completeness in human experience.



Aphorism of the Day, June 1, 2013

Aphorism of the Day

Without being permanent member of Procrastinator's Anonymous, we can be sure that when we arrive at the end of this day there will be some things left undone. The question of anxiety regarding things left undone may have to do with self-expectation and one's specific check list or the expectations of others or the expectations that we have learned to project upon God for what God expects of us. Life involves learning to live with things left undone since we will leave this world "undone" and "unfinished" in the call of the future to always be self-surpassing. What can we tolerate leaving undone today? The poor and the hungry? Justice? Cleaning one's desktop? Assess how you want to go to sleep tonight and the "undone" things of one's life. And don't let perfectionism condemn you; let perfectability invite you.

Youth Dialogue Sermon on Following Christ

2 Kings 2:1-2, 6-14
Psalm 77:1-2, 11-20 Page 693, BCP
Galatians 5:1,13-25
Luke 9:51-62

Youth Sermon
June 30, 2013

Katie: In the name of God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.  Amen.  Please be seated.

Our biblical readings today provide us with many things to reflect upon.  But if I were looking for a theme, I might look at the various types of personalities of people who express their faith and belief in God.

Connor: Well, what if we were all like Elisha?    

James:   What do you mean, Connor?

Connor:   What if we would only follow God by demanding the spectacular?

Katie: I see what you mean.  What if I would only remain an Episcopalian if I could see Father Phil beamed up to the U.S.S. Heavenly Enterprise before my very eyes?  Beam him up Lord Scotty, or I won’t believe!

James:  Well, I guess if you had Trekky demands then you might have to give up your faith.  I suspect Fr. Phil will leave this world in a more standard way.  There have been no Assumptions since the Virgin Mary.

Katie: I’m glad that Elisha got to see his shock and awe so that he was able to believe that God would bless his ministry just like God blessed Elijah’s ministry.

James:  Does the Bible give us heroes in order to make us feel inferior in our ordinary lives?

Connor: I don’t think so.  I think the point of the Bible is to give us examples of faithful lives in order that we might learn to accept and develop our own original relationship with God.

Katie:  Connor, I grant you that….you are an original….throw away the mold type of guy.  I think that Gospel reading shows us that Jesus is dealing with some different attitudes of some of his followers.

James:  One of the attitudes is “Agree with me or else.”

Connor:  Or else what?

James:  Or else I’ll call down fire from heaven as a way of punishing you for not agreeing with me.

Katie:  We still have many “boom boom” prophets today.  Some people are so certain of their own views that they think that every earthquake and hurricane is God’s punishment on people with whom they disagree.

James:  And you notice that Jesus rebuked them for their very destructive judgments.

Connor: Jesus was also concerned that his followers did not mistake over-confidence for faith.

Katie:  What do you mean?

Connor:  Some were certain that it was a “piece of cake” to follow Jesus.  And Jesus warned them about being too sure of them selves.   Our lives of faith do not exempt us from hardship and difficult situations.  And there are things that could happen that might challenge our faith.

James:  We can have faith in God without being too proud of the way in which we know and understand God.  There are too many people today who are so certain about their way of believing in God. 

Katie:  Sometimes the ones who are overconfident end up losing their faith when they experience some difficult situations.  I think Jesus is telling us to be realistic about what it means to have faith and follow him.

Connor:  We get no exemptions from the general conditions of what can happen to anyone in this life.

James:  There is another type of person who thinks that following Jesus is too much trouble; they think it interferes with their lives.

Connor: I know what they mean….it is difficult to be such a superstar basketball player and still follow Christ.

Katie:  Yeah, right…What Jesus might be saying is if anyone thinks that following Christ is not good for their lives, their careers, their families, then don’t do it. 

James: But this also means that they must not understand Christ if his life and teachings are not good for their lives and their career and their families.  I also think that Jesus exposes the fact that often when we say, “I can’t,” it really means “I won’t.”

Connor:  Well, Jesus does allow us the freedom to be ignorant about him and all sorts of things.

Katie:  I think that St. Paul has some important insights for us.  He is more concerned that everyone works to know the fruits of the Spirit.  They are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  These are important virtues that we must learn to practice no matter what we do in our lives.


Connor:  The fruits of the Spirit are compatible with everything that we do in life.  We don’t need to be called to the priesthood in order to be called to the fruits of the Spirit.  We need these virtues to learn excellence in living, no matter what our occupation is.

James:  I think that what we learn from our readings today is that we need to find our original relationship with Christ.

Katie:  I think that Christ invites to follow him in very individual ways…ways that fit the gifts of our personality and the situations of our life.

Connor:  But we also follow Christ in our communities.  We have learned to follow Christ in our Episcopal community at St. John the Divine.

James: Did you ever think that we might be following Christ in the wrong way?

Katie: What do you mean?

James:  Well, the Episcopal Church is very small; St. John’s is very small.  There are lots bigger church than ours.  There are religious people who shout much louder than we do about our faith.  Should we worry about our future relevance as a church and a parish?

Connor:  Will St. John’s always be here?  Will it lose its place and relevance to enough people to keep it going?

Katie:  People who shout the loudest about their faith often get the most attention.  I think as Episcopalian that we have some important things to preserve, even though we don’t shout so loudly about our faith.

James: Yes, the Episcopal Church believes that faith and science go together.  There are so many expressions of the Christian faith which don’t accept more recent understandings about science and about people.

Connor:  I think it is important that we find our faith relevant to the world that we live in.

Katie:  Especially in how we practice justice towards all people.

James:  I think that the Episcopal Church still has a place in this world, even if we are not people who are over-confident about being the only way of understanding things.

Connor:  I think we owe it to keep our church alive.  I think we owe it to keep St. John’s alive and well with our support.

 Katie: The stewardship committee of St. John’s is having a summer appeal to help our parish.

James: I think St. John’s is a good investment; it is a place to develop leadership; public performance, musical talents and skills.

Connor: It is a place where can explore our faith with honest acceptance.

Katie:  It is okay to be a small church too.  In this small parish we have the opportunity to feel like we belong; we don’t have to be lost in the crowd.  And we know that we are needed.

James: Can you recommend the summer campaign for giving to St. John?

Connor: I can.

Katie: Easy for you to say, since you’re not writing the check….but I agree.  We have a calling to be at St. John’s here in Morgan Hill and follow Christ in the way that we can.  And we hope that we do it with an attitude of non-judgmental love and acceptance.  We hope we can know the fruits of the Spirit in our lives.

James: So now that we’ve made a shameless plug for the stewardship campaign of St. John’s, what else can we say?

Connor: Love God, Love Christ, Love your neighbor, be local in your faith and support St. John’s as a community of faith that has a mission today, tomorrow and into the future.  Amen.


"I Can't" Usually Means "I Won't"

6 Pentecost, C p 8, June 30, 2013   
2 Kings 2:1-2, 6-14  Psalm 77:1-2, 11-20
Gal. 5:1, 13-25   Luke 9:51-62  

  What is it that lifts the human spirit when we watch those who participate and compete in the Special Olympics?  We are really touched when persons who struggle with their impairments put forth a heroic effort and compete for the sheer joy of it and give their unqualified effort.
  And I would assert to you that the great issues are rarely about issues of ability; they mainly about issues of will and choice.
  The main duty of every parent is to convince their children that when they say, “I can’t,” it probably means, “I won’t.”
  What kind of parent would require their children to do things that they were unable to do?  Yes there are probably some compulsive and driven parents who have unrealistic expectations for their children but the vast majority of parents only ask their children to do things that fall well within their ability to do.
   Another task of a parent is to encourage their children to be realistic about their abilities and willingness.  Sometimes in youthful pride children are more confident of their abilities than they should be because they are not realistic about what is required of them in a task.    In our appointed Gospel, the writer has collected an interesting group of traditions about Jesus and his disciples.
  The disciples of Jesus seem to be clueless about his mission.  They believe him to be an end of the world apocalyptic General.  And so when a village in Samaria does not cooperate with their supply needs for the mission, they ask General Jesus, “Shall we call in the fighter jets and have them Napalm the village?”  We are told that Jesus rebuked their ignorance.
  What is the work of God and Christ about anyway?  It is not about fire bombs from heaven to convince people about God; no, it is about the inside job that God is trying to do on all of us.  It is about the call of God in Christ.  That is how God intends to change this world.  God wants to do with through the free wills of men and women.  The call of God upon our lives is the way in which God wants to persuade this world to be better.
  The call of God is offered to everyone and when Jesus came, men and women were challenged to answer  that call.  And Jesus offered some rather crisp assessment about the call to discipleship.
  For one who was so sure that he wanted to follow Christ, Jesus told him to be realistic about what is involved.  How many people have started out as wide-eyed optimistic Bible-believing with certainty about God, only to go through the maze of loss and disillusionment and end up as pessimistic atheists or agnostics?  Some of the most devout have had their faith ruined on the rocks of life.  So, Jesus encouraged a potential follower not to think that he would be exempt from the standard requirements of life if he chose to follow him.
  Then Jesus addressed the great dilemma in life when most people say, “I can’t,”  they really mean, “I won’t.”  And that is when Jesus began to speak in his exaggerated speech to challenge them about his calling.  It is like Jesus was saying to them:  “Tell me what you really think of me!  If you think that following me is going to be bad for you and your family, then you probably should not do it.  If you think that I am asking you to do something that is bad for you, then you probably should not do it?
  The standard excuse in life is not a matter of ability but a matter of will.  If we have money to buy season tickets for sports events and boats and items of luxury, do we have money to buy a couple of new wells for villages in Africa without water?  The issue is never ability, the issue is always choice.  God and Christ are never asking us to do what we cannot do, but they are always asking us about matters of our choice to challenge our will.  The call of God is mostly about our will and not about our ability. 
  The greatest hindrances to the call of God are the ordinary things in life:  Like when we let ourselves think that the call of God is in competition with the good of our own life and the lives of our family.  And what does Jesus say: “If that is what you are thinking then you do not understand God or me.”   
  What the words of Jesus confronts us about is:  If we are saying the demands of God’s call are not good for our lives or our family, then we are building false and phony reasons for saying, “Oh, God, I surely can’t do that; it would be too hard for me and my family.”  If the call of God is incompatible with our lives, then indeed it is unrealistic.  But Jesus was really saying, “Don’t go there, if you are trying to cover up your, “I can’t” with an, “I won’t.”  It is your will that is the issue, not your ability or the demands of God.
  Most things in our life come down to the issue of our will.  And often we can be so programmed into our social, family and cultural patterns; we literally do not feel very free.  Sometimes when we don’t feel very free it’s because we have accepted so many commitments.  And the call of God is a reminder for us always to re-evaluate our priority and commitments so that we can truly express our freedom.
  The reading from St. Paul gives us a clue to true freedom.  True freedom for St. Paul was the experience of the Holy Spirit in his life.  To know the Spirit is to know true freedom.  This freedom is expressed in a positive response to the call of God when we say I will and I can.
  What are the expressions of freedom of the Holy Spirit?  They are the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience., kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  The fruits of the Spirit are the powerful ways in which we say to the call of God, “I will.”  And are any of these fruits bad for our family life, our church life, our personal lives or the life of this world?

  The God that Jesus preached was not a God who bombed people into submission with fire from heaven; the God of Jesus was a God who gently called people to follow what is good.  The God of Jesus is the one who placed the Holy Spirit within us to empower us to true freedom to answer the call of Christ.  And what is that call?  It is a call to love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  And that call is freedom and it is good for us, for our families, our parish and our world.  Let us give up our excuses and let us say, “I will and I can follow Christ, through the wonderful fruits of the Holy Spirit.”  Amen.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Called to be People Whisperers

5 Pentecost, Cp7, June 23, 2013   
Isaiah 65:1-9 Psalm 22:18-27
Gal. 3:23-29   Luke 8:26-39


  One of the things that has happened in Christianity due to its success is an attempt to reduce story and narrative to teaching, philosophy and theology.  And in the process of making a narrative into propositions of truth or falsity, the entire nuance of the story truth is lost and people are left arguing about doctrines, belief and faith statements.
  In the way that I approach interpretation, I look for the great principles or structures that seem to be the motive of the Bible stories and then I look for a contemporary corresponding example to illustrate and make it come to relevance for me and some others who for better or worse place themselves to overhear my talking mind in my sermons.
  A recent cinematic and cultural phenomenon has come to be called “horse whispering.”  And now we have “dog whisperers” or “pet whisperers;”  these are people who in their practice seem to have such a “way with animals” that they have a calming effect upon animals but also even have a liminal crossing over participatory state of seeming empathy to make them claim specific communication with animals.
  And from this notion of a “whisperer,” I have frequented to use this a metaphor for the psychiatric healing ministry of Jesus.  I would call Jesus, the ultimate people whisperer; ultimate because of the accounts of the effect that he had on a host of people in a variety of conditions and that this whispering effect of Jesus has extended beyond his life in his body here on earth.
  It must also be honestly noted that the whispering effect of Jesus did not have universal effectiveness; there were religious people who were angered by him and not effectively whispered by him.  And then there were those Roman local officials who were not whispered either, since they are the ones who carried out his crucifixion.  So even the whispering of Jesus was limited in its effectiveness; the condition of receptiveness of the whispered was also important.  Certainly a horse whisperer is probably not omni-competent to be able to tame all horses which is why horse whispering probably needs many practitioners.
  Whispering pertains to a style of how to be with people; I think the wisdom of the style of how to be with people in the very best way is the loving intent behind the Holy Scriptures.  And we find many personalities and many kinds of whispering and many story details of how and when it is done.   The mistake of some biblical interpreters is to make cultural details absolute and miss the big “whispering” principle.  This would be like a modern doctor determined to continue to practice bloodletting as a valid medical procedure because some physicians in the past thought it was an effective treatment.  A physician who practiced bloodletting in the past thought that he or she was practicing care for the patient; the motive of care is the principle, not the detail of bloodletting.
  Whether Elijah, Jesus or Paul, they in their own ways had come to be “people whisperers” and they did their whispering based upon the fact that they knew themselves first to be whispered by God in such a profound way that this divine whispering impelled them to whisper people.
  People whispering might be said to be a graceful way of engaging another person toward their well-being in their body, soul and spirit.
  Elijah, Jesus and Paul believed that people whispering involved building a community around a relationship with God which was not just about clergy arguing about religious doctrine and having a means of income from a religious profession; people whispering had to do with the art of living together, the art of having a life orientation characterized by faith, love, hope, patience, courage and self-control.
  I believe that it is a main calling in everyone’s life to be a people whisperer; namely, how can we learn to be better at gracefully engaging people for their well-being.  Family, society and parish life requires that we do whispering.  Parents have to spend sleepless nights whispering a baby who will not be comforted.  They have to whisper their children in persuasive ways towards personal excellence.  In our lives, we also are blessed if we can experience very individual and personal whispering by being befriended by someone who seems to have a gift of “having a way with us” such that we let down our protective guard to allow oneself to be ministered to in unique and special ways.  There are all sorts of people whispering that needs to be done in this world; if there is failure and turmoil in our world, we might rightly blame that there has not been enough match-making that has occurred to achieve compatible whispering to occur between the parties that truly could benefit with mutuality between the whisperer and the one to be whispered.  We understand that Jesus left this world in his bodily presence because in being in us as the risen-Christ, the whispering work of God is expanded.  Jesus of Nazareth could not effectively whisper everyone; he left the legacy of the art of whispering as the way in which people are to be together.
  We could decry the lack of serendipity in the failure for the whisperers and whisper-needy to be matched.  Elijah, Jesus and Paul came as those who were whispered by God and so went forth to whisper others and to promote communities that would be committed to the whispering care of others in this world.
  And that is why we have the church; not to have an exclusive club with strict rules for membership.  We have a church in order to remind ourselves about the greatest human dynamic of all.  Being whispered and learning to whisper.  We learn to be whispered in integrating the care of others as well as integrating all of our life experience into a usable personal database to be made evident and available to whisper the people whom we are called to be with in graceful and caring ways.  The nuances of whispering are endless and most of it happens in very un-self-conscious ways.  A smile, a gentle encouragement of a child, picking up trash in the street and unwittingly being noticed by a neighbor a block away; there are endless modes of whispering.
  Today, let us be like Elijah; find the still small voice of God’s whispering presence.  Let be like Paul in finding good reason for different people of different backgrounds to love each other in a faith community.  And while we may not be trained in the ancient medical art of exorcism, we do have the ability to be a calming and peaceful presence to the lives of many people in our lives.  And we don’t have to do so by upsetting the pork futures in our locations.
  The psalmist wrote, “As a deer pants for water, so my soul longs after God.”  This expresses the beginning of whispering.  We long for that which is More than Us as a way of learning to integrate everything that happens to us in the wisdom of learning a life orientation, a life art to learn where things go and fit in our lives.

  My prayer for all of us is that we would receive and know ourselves having been whispered by God, by Christ, by the Holy Spirit, and by significant people who have been in our lives.  And from having been whispered we too have taken up our calling to whisper others in knowing and unknowing way, since to know Christ and to be in Christ is to be in a community of people who are committed to “people whispering” in this world.  Amen. 

Children Can Be "People Whisperers too"

5 Pentecost, Cp7, June 23, 2013   
1 Kings 19:1-4, (5-7), 8-15a  Psalm 42
 Gal. 3:23-29   Luke 8:26-39
  Have you ever been to a circus?  Have ever seen someone who works with animals?  With wild animals?  Have you seen a lion tamer?  Or have you seen someone who teach a dog to do amazing tricks?
  Have you ever taught your dog some tricks? Can you get the dog to fetch a ball?  Or roll over?  Or sit?  Or does your dog train you to feed it whenever it wants?
  Some people have a special gift with animals.  A person who can tame a wild horse is sometimes called a horse whisperer.  A horse whisper has such a calming effect upon the horse so that the horse will become very friendly and peaceful.  Sometimes a horse is wild and seems to be angry because the horse has been taught to be fearful and not trust anyone.
  Did you know that as people we can have things that make us wild?  Do you know what can make us wild?  Pain, loss and fear can make us wild.
  Do you ever remember falling and hurting yourself and all you can do is scream in pain; you cannot do anything else.  Pain makes us seems as though we are wild.  Fear also makes us seem like we are wild.  Losing important things and people in our lives makes us have a sadness and this sadness controls our lives.
  Just as a wild horse needs a horse whisperer; we as people need people whisperers.
  When we hurt ourselves, we need our parent or someone with us to hold us and help us, to give us a band aid.  We need someone to calm us down from the wildness caused by pain.
  When we are afraid, we need a people whisperer; we need someone with us to show us that we are safe and that everything is okay.
  Jesus was a wonderful person because he was a people whisperer.  Jesus knew how to calm and tame people from the wildness of pain and fear.  We have many stories of Jesus helping people when they suffered from pain and fear; he gave them hope and encouragement and he made them peaceful and calm just to be with them.
  And Jesus wants us to be people whisperers too.  He wants us to learn how to be with each other when we are hurt by pain and fear.  Everyone has pain and fear at some time in their lives and so it is very important that we learn how to be people whisperers with each other.
  We need to know how to be with each other in pain and fear.  When your friend gets hurt on the playground what do you do?  You try to help them; you run and get help, you call 911 if they are really hurt badly.  When people are in the hospital what do you do?  You visit them, you send them cards or flowers, you pray for them, you let them know that you care.
  Why?  Because Jesus wants us to be people whisperers.  Jesus wants to know how to help each other when we have pain and fear.
  Can you say today, “I will be a people whisperer when people are in pain or fear?”  Because I want to be cared for too when I have pain or fear.  Amen.


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