Sunday, June 30, 2013

"I Can't" Usually Means "I Won't"

6 Pentecost, C p 8, June 30, 2013   
2 Kings 2:1-2, 6-14  Psalm 77:1-2, 11-20
Gal. 5:1, 13-25   Luke 9:51-62  

  What is it that lifts the human spirit when we watch those who participate and compete in the Special Olympics?  We are really touched when persons who struggle with their impairments put forth a heroic effort and compete for the sheer joy of it and give their unqualified effort.
  And I would assert to you that the great issues are rarely about issues of ability; they mainly about issues of will and choice.
  The main duty of every parent is to convince their children that when they say, “I can’t,” it probably means, “I won’t.”
  What kind of parent would require their children to do things that they were unable to do?  Yes there are probably some compulsive and driven parents who have unrealistic expectations for their children but the vast majority of parents only ask their children to do things that fall well within their ability to do.
   Another task of a parent is to encourage their children to be realistic about their abilities and willingness.  Sometimes in youthful pride children are more confident of their abilities than they should be because they are not realistic about what is required of them in a task.    In our appointed Gospel, the writer has collected an interesting group of traditions about Jesus and his disciples.
  The disciples of Jesus seem to be clueless about his mission.  They believe him to be an end of the world apocalyptic General.  And so when a village in Samaria does not cooperate with their supply needs for the mission, they ask General Jesus, “Shall we call in the fighter jets and have them Napalm the village?”  We are told that Jesus rebuked their ignorance.
  What is the work of God and Christ about anyway?  It is not about fire bombs from heaven to convince people about God; no, it is about the inside job that God is trying to do on all of us.  It is about the call of God in Christ.  That is how God intends to change this world.  God wants to do with through the free wills of men and women.  The call of God upon our lives is the way in which God wants to persuade this world to be better.
  The call of God is offered to everyone and when Jesus came, men and women were challenged to answer  that call.  And Jesus offered some rather crisp assessment about the call to discipleship.
  For one who was so sure that he wanted to follow Christ, Jesus told him to be realistic about what is involved.  How many people have started out as wide-eyed optimistic Bible-believing with certainty about God, only to go through the maze of loss and disillusionment and end up as pessimistic atheists or agnostics?  Some of the most devout have had their faith ruined on the rocks of life.  So, Jesus encouraged a potential follower not to think that he would be exempt from the standard requirements of life if he chose to follow him.
  Then Jesus addressed the great dilemma in life when most people say, “I can’t,”  they really mean, “I won’t.”  And that is when Jesus began to speak in his exaggerated speech to challenge them about his calling.  It is like Jesus was saying to them:  “Tell me what you really think of me!  If you think that following me is going to be bad for you and your family, then you probably should not do it.  If you think that I am asking you to do something that is bad for you, then you probably should not do it?
  The standard excuse in life is not a matter of ability but a matter of will.  If we have money to buy season tickets for sports events and boats and items of luxury, do we have money to buy a couple of new wells for villages in Africa without water?  The issue is never ability, the issue is always choice.  God and Christ are never asking us to do what we cannot do, but they are always asking us about matters of our choice to challenge our will.  The call of God is mostly about our will and not about our ability. 
  The greatest hindrances to the call of God are the ordinary things in life:  Like when we let ourselves think that the call of God is in competition with the good of our own life and the lives of our family.  And what does Jesus say: “If that is what you are thinking then you do not understand God or me.”   
  What the words of Jesus confronts us about is:  If we are saying the demands of God’s call are not good for our lives or our family, then we are building false and phony reasons for saying, “Oh, God, I surely can’t do that; it would be too hard for me and my family.”  If the call of God is incompatible with our lives, then indeed it is unrealistic.  But Jesus was really saying, “Don’t go there, if you are trying to cover up your, “I can’t” with an, “I won’t.”  It is your will that is the issue, not your ability or the demands of God.
  Most things in our life come down to the issue of our will.  And often we can be so programmed into our social, family and cultural patterns; we literally do not feel very free.  Sometimes when we don’t feel very free it’s because we have accepted so many commitments.  And the call of God is a reminder for us always to re-evaluate our priority and commitments so that we can truly express our freedom.
  The reading from St. Paul gives us a clue to true freedom.  True freedom for St. Paul was the experience of the Holy Spirit in his life.  To know the Spirit is to know true freedom.  This freedom is expressed in a positive response to the call of God when we say I will and I can.
  What are the expressions of freedom of the Holy Spirit?  They are the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience., kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  The fruits of the Spirit are the powerful ways in which we say to the call of God, “I will.”  And are any of these fruits bad for our family life, our church life, our personal lives or the life of this world?

  The God that Jesus preached was not a God who bombed people into submission with fire from heaven; the God of Jesus was a God who gently called people to follow what is good.  The God of Jesus is the one who placed the Holy Spirit within us to empower us to true freedom to answer the call of Christ.  And what is that call?  It is a call to love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  And that call is freedom and it is good for us, for our families, our parish and our world.  Let us give up our excuses and let us say, “I will and I can follow Christ, through the wonderful fruits of the Holy Spirit.”  Amen.

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