Sunday, November 16, 2014

We Are Unevenly Talented People: Problem and Blessing

23 Pentecost A p. 28 November 16, 2014
Judges 4:1-7    Psalm 123      
1 Thessalonians 5:1-11  Matthew 25:14-30


How many of you when you have gone to Reno or Las Vegas and done some gambling come away telling all of your friends how much money you lost?  No, you tell only about the time you hit the jackpot in the slot machines.  And you conveniently omit to tell the truth about the cumulative total of your losses.  And do you tell everyone about all of the dollars you have spent buying lottery tickets? Or do you only tell about the time you won $50 dollars from a scratch off?  And what about all of the amazing stock investments?  Do you broadcast your losses as much as you broadcast your winning stock investments?
  We conveniently like to accentuate the positive and broadcast our winnings and we don't air our losses in public.  And perhaps that is the psychologically healthy, even though it is the practice of a very selective disclosure.
  Our faith life needs to be encompassing; in our faith we need to embrace all and still live integrated lives in the face of a wide range of uneven and different events which can happen to us.  And this is where the parables of Jesus help us the most; they are wisdom parables which encourage us to understand faith as the ability to integrate everything which happens to us in life and keep us hopeful about life.
  We have often been taught by the interpretative traditions of the church to try to assign certain groups of people to which the judgments in the parable of Jesus are referring.  The Gospels present Jesus in dialogue with the Jewish religious authorities even as the Gospel were mainly written during and after the process of the gradual separation of the Jewish and Christian religious communities from each other.  So, the parables are often used as a polemic against the Jews to imply that "they were wrong about Jesus."
  However in the actual time of Jesus when the parables of Jesus would have been told, such divisions did not yet exist and so it behooves us to recover the original wisdom of the parables of Jesus as being honestly descriptive of the conditions of freedom of life and coming to have faith. Faith involves hope and belief that our lives are still worthwhile, no matter what happens to us.
  The parable of the talents occurs in the middle of Every Member Canvass Season and how convenient is that?  So we may be tempted to expound upon the terrible life principle of atrophy, the use it or lose it reality of life.  The truth of life is that when we choose to develop one gift or aspect of ourselves, some other part of ourselves experiences atrophy through lack of practice.  No one is omni-competent to everything that needs to be done in life and so one is forced to make choices about what skills one wants to develop in one's life.  The skills that we do not have or develop may be the ones which cause us distress.
  We are tempted to think that the Master in the parable of the talents is God and God assigns different measures of talents to different people.  And God requires that each person doubles one's talents.
  I think it is more intuitive and consistent with other words of Jesus to understand that the Master of the parable is the freedom of human conditions in the uneven distribution of the nature and nurture of talents in one's life.
  I think that each person has the five talent experience, the two talent experience but each person also has the one talent experience and the experience of weeping and gnashing of teeth.
  There are some things in life which just come easier to us and we discover a gift and we have fulfillment in developing a skill and it pays us with very great reward.  And we are blessed in life if we have found the "five talent" aspect of our personal development.
  We also have the "two talent" aspect of our personal development.  By this I mean that outside of our five talent investment, we have avocations, hobbies, and other personal skills which complement our main life vocation.    A person is blessed in life to find in addition to one's main vocation to have enjoyable avocations where one finds the expression of creativity and joyful rewards.
  Further, each of us finds out that one is not superhuman in all manner of living.  We find that we have the proverbial Achilles' heels; the parts of our selves which are not natural or fun or easy to develop.  We find ourselves in certain areas of our personality paralyzed and unable to perform up to preferred levels.  We experience the weeping and gnashing of teeth in the experience of our own mediocrity and it can be a humbling experience.  It sometimes feels as though we over-compensate in our areas of strength so that we don't let our areas of weakness bother us too much or we hide those areas of weakness from others. 
  The parable of Jesus presents us with an artful understanding of the human experience of encompassing great talent, moderate talent and mediocre talent in the experience of each person.
  The reason that I view the parable in this way is that I think it would be a mistake to live this life believing that God as the Master of life is someone who we would be so afraid of as being so demanding that we cower in fear and not even try to develop our gifts at all.  And if God is not represented as the Master of life to be feared if we don't develop our gifts, who is this master of life who is presented in the parable?
  I believe the master of life represented in the parable is the experience of the conditions of freedom which means that each person has an uneven distribution of talents and levels of personal development.  And in the areas of our strengths and success we can feel proud and affirmed.  But to be honest to the conditions of freedom in life, a real exacting master, we know that we can fail because of our fear.  We may have a personal tendency to fail to develop some important skills in life which frustrates us and makes us feel like life is unfair to us in some regards in not allowing for the development of ourselves into superhuman species.
  So faith and wisdom have to do with recognizing the conditions of freedom which face us.  Let us be wise about having any pretense about being omni-competent in life.  If I can be honest about not being omni-competent in life, then I will not give up because I experience weakness in certain areas of personal development; rather I will let my strengths compensate and carry me, not through denial, but in faith I attempt to weave together the human experience of having strengths and weaknesses.
  Where I am weak, I am complemented and made complete by seeking and receiving the gift of my brother or sister who is strong in the area that I am weak.  The experience of weeping and gnashing of teeth is an important experience for us to know if we are going to gain the ability to have empathy for other people and also have the humility to ask and receive help when we need it.
  This parable of Jesus is also a wisdom parable about the importance of community.  When I am frustrated in the development of a certain talent, I need the supporting gifts and talents of others to make me complete within the community.  But also when I experience the blessing of my own talents, I need to be willing to help and lift up and complement with my strength of gifts the weaknesses of other.
  And so I believe that this parable of the talent exposes the mixed blessing of life in the manifestations of our gifts.  We have great gifts or dominant personal gifts; we have other moderate personal gifts but we also have some areas that for various reasons remain underdeveloped or weak.
  The wisdom for our parish community and families and community at large is to work for the common good.  The common good consists of learning how to put together pieces of the puzzle of effective human community by seeking to find the interlocking fit of our gifts so that the strong and weak get properly matched for a successful community to complete its mission.
  The parable of the talents invites us to the puzzle of the work of finding complementary human relationship with our community of faith for the common good.  May God grant us wisdom to discover honesty about the strengths and weaknesses in our gifts and talents.  May God give generous hearts to share our strengths to complement those who are weak..  May God give us humble honesty about our weakness and the vulnerability to confess that we need each other and we need the experience of the grace of God to make us to be a community of people who can do much more together as people who complement each other than we can do as presumed omni-competent Lone Rangers or those who suffer in silence and loneliness.
  Let us pray that God would give us grace and wisdom to be the church as we need God's grace and we need each other here in this place.  Amen. 

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